A Fallacy in Personal Responsibility:

“I am not the only one responsible for my well-being here. I trusted you, and you accepted the responsibility. If you had not accepted, then you wouldn’t have been capable of taking opportunities away from me. It was not my fault that I trusted you, since trust is not an evil thing, but rather yours that you betrayed that trust, since treachery is evil.


So: don’t try to preach responsibility to me because I suffer. You’ve confessed that, had you acted otherwise, I would have benefited, and you can’t deny that, had I never trusted you, you never could have acted as you did.


I suffered through the combination of my own goodwill and your betrayal of it. YOU are to atone, not I. You cannot separate responsibility from Justice.” [My own writing. Image unrelated.]

Sadly, this is lost on narcissists who claim that we are not responsible for how we have affected Others. Yet the Truth is this: that all of us depend on Others for our own well-being, and responsibility requires the admission of that fact and its reciprocation.


**[({R.G.)}]**


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